THINGS THAT YOU DID NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU UNTIL MOTHERHOOD

Motherhood is a very exciting thing for a woman. You want it or not but motherhood changes your life a lot. You start thinking in different way and nearly every aspect of your life changes a lot. You need to adopt these changes otherwise it will be hard for you to cope with the situation. Being mother is an adorable feeling and definitely it influences a lot in your life. There are some feelings that you start experiencing only when you become mother and that is just wonderful. You become a new person and get more responsible. Thus there are so many changes that happen to you once you become mother. Let’s see what the changes are.

1. The thing that surprised you the most was that you did not know you can love unconditionally. This is just wonderful. You were most probably a proud woman who loved herself. However as you become a mom you truly learn how to love unconditionally, and that is actually a really good feeling. You never expected you are able to love in such a way. Loving and giving everything to you baby, without expecting something in return.
2. You did not know how to manage your time, and always wasted it, but now your appreciate time. When you are not a mom, you like wasting your time on silly things and you do not think about time management. Once you become mother and you are always short of time, you start appreciating it more You want to always find time for your children and want to spend less time in workplace or outdoors.
3. You start appreciating your own mother more. When you see how difficult is raising up a child, and taking care of him, you all of a sudden think how your mom did it all and you start appreciating her even more. You just start adoring your mom by all means and you understand her now better than anytime else. Now you understand why she always was so worried about you.
4. You get a magical thing called mother intuition. You know mother intuition never lies. Mothers always feel their children, some feel more than others, but still everyone feels when something is going wrong with the child. This feeling sometimes harms you and you cannot concentrate on your work for example.
5. You did not know that women can help each other so much. Once you are not a mom, the other women can be mean to you or you towards them. However, as you become a mom, you just start feeling that there is a true support between women when it comes to being a mom and having children.
6. When you are with the baby, everyone respects you more. This happens unexpectedly but you feel that once you are carrying the baby, everyone looks up to you and wants to support you. They are more helpful, they are supportive, even the strangers. So you just will there is lots of respect towards you as a mom.
7. One of the most important things you notice in you is that you become more responsible than you were before your motherhood. You start to understand that actually you are not alone. You are not only responsible for yourself and your own life, but also of someone else’s and this gives you a motivation to do your best and to become much better than you are in reality.
8. The feeling of loneliness fades away once you are with the baby. In general you have a nice feeling that you are not alone in this life and that there is someone you live for, there is someone that needs you and this is a brilliant feeling that makes you feel you have someone in this world. While before motherhood you had a feeling that you are alone, which made you fall into depression quite often.

These were the top 8 changes that you witness in yourself once you become a mom. Motherhood anyway gives you lots of unexpected and wonderful changes that are needed for your life. SO just enjoy these changes and appreciate your motherhood.