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We all are born in different families. In so many different families we can see different attitudes, different relations, and different moods. However, being born in a family, which provides the family nice atmosphere, where the relations of all members are good, is extremely important. All the children need to be born in families where there is a love, care, respect and understanding. Children learn whatever they see. If they see an ill atmosphere in the family, where everyone quarrels with another one, this really gets very annoying. Children learn this very fast, and then later on they start to behave that way in their own families. Of course this is not something nice. I am sure no parent wants his child ruin his or her family life when he or she gets older. However, this is connected with your as well. If you want your child be mentally healthy and succeed you should provide him peace and care in the family. If the peace does not exist, then be almost sure, that it will have a really negative impact on children.
That is why there are many things that you should consider when it comes to your own behavior. Besides this, not many people know, but there is a certain vision of family, that children want to see.
So now let’s understand how they want to see their parents.
- First of all children of course want to see their parents respect each other. If you do not respect each other, then just be sure, that they will not respect you also. For example if they see how father talks in bad manner with their mom, then they will start talking in bad manner with dad. That is why you should show respect to each other.
- Besides this, all children want to see that parents do love each other. When they see that parents love each other, they become happy. They may not even realize this, because they are still kids. However, this directly influences the children and their behavior. They start to be more cheerful and the studies show that the children who raise up in family where parents show love to each other, they grow up happier. This is very simple actually. If you love your wife you just kiss her in front of children, praise her and bring her flowers. On the other side, mom should also love the father of course and show it.
- Thirdly it is also extremely important to spend time together. Children like to see that their parents devote time for each other. Family time is extremely important but dates for you are also important. You can just take your wife for dinner and let the children spend time with their grandparents. I am sure the children will like to see their parents having date with each other. This will let them think that their parents still love each other and still want to spend time together.
- The last thing that children want to see in their parents is the way they match together. This is a combination of many things. This not only refers to the character but by appearance as well. So for this you just have to really try to look your best. Children like seeing parents match beautifully.
As you can see there are many things that children want to see in their parents. These were the most common things, however, there are much many things that need to be there. You should be devoted to your partner of live, be loyal, and as already mentioned be loving, careful and respectful. If you try to keep all these things in your family and show this brilliant attitude to your partner, the only the only thing the children will learn is love. Being born in this kind of family is a wonderful gift of life, which later on, the children will understand and appreciate. Besides this, for you also it is quite nice to have this type of family, because you also will be happy for sure. At the same time, it will undoubtedly have a positive impact on your children as well.
