WAYS HOW TO BALANCE THE ROLE OF MOM AND CAREER

It is known to be almost general truth that combining motherhood with good career is impossible. In this article we will make you think just the other way. It is quite possible to have a good career and be a good mom at the same time. I agree that you may not be able to spend so much time with you mom but in any case, be just aware that there are some ways to have the life you almost dreamed of, including your baby and including your dream job. It may be hard, but nothing is easy if you want to live the life you want. Some people say that if you work and spend less time with your kid it may affect him or her, and the baby will forget that you are the mom. This can technically happen, but if you put things in right way, you will escape such dramatic scenario. Moreover, it can be even helpful for the child, because she or he will get used to independence at an early age and will learn to become an adult even earlier than mates. You may be also facing some stress and depression because when you are in the family you want to go to workplace, when you are in workplace you want to be with your baby. Here are the best ways how to balance all these and how to control your life.

1. First of all think that you are away from your family at workplace but that benefits them. You would have been much more useful for them being away, than just staying at home, sitting with the baby and doing nothing just spending some free time. While in workplace you work and earn money, which can be really helpful to child.
2. I know you are worried that something may go wrong with your child while you are far. Make a list of most important features when it comes to babysitter. Once you have the list, just look for someone who has those qualities that you are looking for. It is hard to trust your baby to someone else, but there are some great babysitters that will take a precise care of your baby. So do not be afraid. However, if you do not trust anyone, than just let your parents take care of the baby.
3. It would be easier for you if you make concrete schedule for you. I mean do not leave the things you should do until the morning. You may be really tired after work and may wish to go to bed immediately, but that is not right. Better is to plan everything at night, make your clothes ready, the breakfast ready at night. In this case you will not have to wake up so early and will not be stress out in the morning.
4. Always stay in touch with the babysitter and with the baby. This will somehow help you to overcome the distance between you.
5. Try to avoid wasting time on silly things like talking. Also do not take too many duties in weekdays as it can be even more tiring. For example if you have to do some shopping for the house, then do it on weekends, otherwise you will waste your energy you need in weekdays.
6. You can spend one of the weekends on having a fun family activity. Go for picnic, go to shop, go to woods or to movies. Anything you like. While on the last weekend day have some maintenance at home or spend the time on cleaning the house and just staying at home. You may be busy with cleaning the house, but still you are at home and you will fill up your batter and be ready for the crazy run of the week again.

This is how you can manage your time and make your life well organized. If you escape from wasting your time on silly things and make a precise schedule, then I am convinced that you will have a quite good career and manage to be a quite good mother as well. Nothing is impossible and being a good mom and a career maker is also impossible.