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Mother-daughter relationship is not an ordinary thing. It is one of the most important relationships in their lives if not the most important one. They are more than just a relationship, but a treasure. Every daughter definitely wants to have good relationship with her mom, and nearly every mom sacrifices everything for her daughter. The feeling that these 2 have towards each other is hard to describe by simple words. For both of them it is really important to have each other. They both need each other as a friend and as relatives as well. In most of the cases mom is the most beautiful woman in the whole world for the daughter and the daughter always looks up to mom. She is her role model and everything that she does has lots of impact on her. While at the same time, for mom, her daughter is always the most beautiful, the cleverest and the best girl in the entire world. So let’s see what their relationship should look like.
First of all they should be best friends. This is hard to get when there is a strong age gap between mother and the daughter. Sometimes moms are too conservative because of the age gap between them, but anyway, daughter must try to consider mother’s point of view. Mom is the only person you can be sure that always wants the best for you. She just cannot give you a bad advice. Moreover, moms see and notice a lot more than we do. If she says your friends are not good, than trust me there is something wrong with them. SO just try to be good friends. Both of them should listen to each other, tell secrets and share the cheerful moments with one another.
Mothers should try to make friends with daughter’s friends. This will make things much easier for you. You will easily be able to set good relations with your daughter if you treat and respect her friends, and even become friends with them. You just cannot do a better thing dear mother.
These two must shop together. Shopping and listening to each other’s advice will make it easier for you to communicate and will make the level of trust between you higher.
The next thing the mother can do is trying to be a good role mother to her daughter. Explain her women staff and talk about boys as well. This will make you even closer. Then you will feel how she gets more open to you and she herself starts talking about her personal life in front of you. She has no secrets from you, nothing to hide from you and this makes you very happy, as a mom.
The next thing which is also important is that you should believe in her, and make her confident. When she sees that you believe in her, she will get inspired and she will do everything to make you be proud of her. Just treat her well, tell how beautiful she is and how proud you are of her. In this case she will see how much you love her, and she will try her best to never make you disappointed.
The next and last thing is that you should not hurt her father. If there is a father in the family, you should try your best to keep the family, she will appreciate this very much. Even if things are not so good in the family, just try to make things better, and keep the family full, this is what she will appreciate the most. Showing respect and loving his father is one of the best things you can do to have a good relationship with her.
These were the tips you will need the most if you want to set strong ties between you and your daughter. Have a nice relationship because you both are irreplaceable for each other.
