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The relations of father and daughter’s boyfriend may be good, may be bad, may be complicated and hard as well. Actually this depends greatly on how strict the father is how the boyfriend treats them all. First of all whatever the relations are both the father and the boyfriend will have to be nice to each other and to respect each other. The good relations between father and son make her happy more than anything else. That is why it is extremely important to somehow regulate these relations. Actually they really may not like each other that much, but they may keep in good relations. There can also be some conflicts or disliking between them, which may have different reasons.
So one of the most unique reasons is that the father is just not ready to see someone else on her side. This is very typical to fathers who just adore their daughter and therefore want the best for them. This kind of fathers are so much worried about their daughters and they so much care about them that they just cannot accept that their daughters may date someone, or that they are not the only important people in the lives of their daughters. In this case the father just needs some time to understand that sooner or later his daughter will start to date or will marry.
Another reason for conflicts may be the reason that the father really did not like the boyfriend of daughter. This also in its turn may have some other reasons. First of all men recognize men better than women. He may just feel from his attitude that that person is not the best one for his daughter. Besides, fathers also have some intuition over their children. So if he really feels something then he just feels it. In this case he must just warn his daughter about the situation and that he feels very bad of that guy.
Besides this, you face some kind of other problems, such as the attitude of boyfriend, not greeting and other things that are connected to simple but important issues.
However, if the relations between these 2 are nice, then father should treat the boyfriend very well. If there is no reason to treat badly then of course he should treat him as a friend or as a son.
If the relations between these 2 are nice it is beneficial for both of them. So just show respect to the boyfriend of your daughter as well. You should show you love your daughter and respect your daughter really well in front of him. In this case he will appreciate you and also will treat your son with respect.
A lot depends on how you treat you daughter in front of him. If you praise her and how respect, if you be protective and nice, then he will also be that way and respect your son a lot.
So as you see there are many things that matter. It is not only about your personal attitude. You may not like the guy that much, but if you see that he loves your daughter and your daughter loves him, if you see that there is respect in between you two, then there just cannot be any other option as respecting him and treating well. On the other side, if you see that there are real reasons why you should keep him from your daughter, then really make her understand she is not the best one for sure and just tell her to break up.
As you can see these relations are extremely uncomfortable and they do not always end up being good. However, try to do everything so as to make these relations good. The beloved one and the father are two most important men in the life of a daughter and seeing them in bad relations will really make her sad and unhappy. So you both should try to be tolerant with each other and respect each other for the sake of the girl.
Relations are complicated but if you have wish you will definitely succeed.
