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For every child it is essential to know that he is being loved and appreciated. For that parents should praise their children. Praising really makes the children more confident and makes them more motivated in a way. When the child knows that he is being appreciated and understood, he starts to do much more than he would do before being praised. This technically means that the children can get the motivation. So basically there is no difference it is the mother or the father. For the children it must be very important to know that they are being motivated and loved. They must know that whatever they put the effort into, they succeed and that parents see and praise them. However being praised by mother is just another kind of pleasure for any child. Mom is the one who gave birth to you, who brought you up. So all the good children try to make their moms proud and try to do anything to see how the mom praises them.
So now let’s understand how mom should praise her children.
- First if all moms can praise her children by showing love and care. When moms show more love, care and good attitude that is one of the biggest appraisements ever. The kinds and children in general need to be loved by moms. So when they do something and in return you just love them more, then be sure that they will try their best to become better or to do better, so that you will love them more.
- The second way to praise the child is to say the appraisement. If you see that the child did something great then you have to tell that it is really good, and to say that you are proud of that action. This is something that all the children need. Children do not understand the words or the attitude that much. Very often you have to tell them directly. So just do not be afraid to tell them what they deserve to hear. This may really motivate them.
- What will motivate them even more and will be a good appraisement is to tell in public that you are really proud of the child. Of course telling him this is very important. However, when you tell this in public they become even more motivated. They just feel that you are not afraid to praise them in front of others and that you are not ashamed of them. This is something that really motivates the kids. Children start to appreciate this when they are almost teenagers.
- Another means to praise your child is to buy him things he wants to get. You can just tell him that if he does what you want him to do, he will get a good present or reward. However, if he just does something and then only gets reward very unexpectedly, it would be even much better. In this case he will not do anything just for reward, but after the result he will feel very proud and will also feel that you praise him by actions.
- Another way of praising can be the presents of Santa or going to some cool place. This will also make a really cool appraisement or reward. In this case the child will feel highly motivated and will want to do even more and more. The presents and nice places are always very exciting.
As you can see, there are many cool methods on how you can praise your child. The appraisement brings other benefits as well, such as making you and your child closer, making your child happier and more motivated and also not letting your child disappoint and let down. These things are very important even for adults, let alone the children. Some parents are afraid to praise their children because they think that they may get spoiled and not do anything at all. However if you raised the child up in a good way then know that he or she will really appreciate the appraisement and will try her best to do even more in order to make you feel more proud. So just praise your children if they deserve it.
