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Parents actually live their lives only for their children. Many parents devote their whole lives to their children and they just literally adore them. Parents try to do the best for their children and mostly whatever they do, they do for their child. Besides this, the child and parent relations are probably the best relations ever and the most pure one. These are the real relations, where you can for sure witness true love and devotion. Besides this, children are really dependent on their parents and parents influence a lot their children. The children learn most of the things from their parents and they find that their parents are the best creatures ever. This is also quite true, because we all think that we have the best parents. It is essential for every child to feel love, care and respect for from both parents. We just love to see that the parents are supporting us, paying enough attention, care and when they praise us. These are the most important things for children. Besides this, when the children feel they have the support of the parents, they want to be better for them and to make them proud.
However, there can be some conflicts between children and parents as well. Sometimes not everything in this kind of relationship is quite and smooth. Thus, if you want to understand these entire things, let’s see what parent can do that will hurt the child.
- Let’s start from the appearance of the child. Even if the child is not the most beautiful or the most handsome one, definitely you should not let him or her know about it. When the child knows you do not like the way he or she looks, you disappoint her and make her sadder. So even if the child is not very beautiful and have some faults, do not voice about them, if these are things that cannot be changed.
- If you show that you are ashamed of the child, then he or she will be disappointed. This is really bad thing to do, because if you do not approve what the child does and you feel ashamed, you may say it in tactful manner and that is all. Do not ever show that you are ashamed, otherwise this will really hurt and they will become stressed out.
- The next thing is that the children are very sensitive to the relations of parents. So if the parents are quarreling, shouting at each other and not living peaceful together, then this for sure will hurt the child. The family atmosphere has a lot to do with the child.
- If the child has sibling and parents pay more attention to the other one, then definitely it can hurt the child. This can make some competition between the children as well. Of course there should be no jealousy between the siblings, but children are children. Children do feel jealousy because of lack of attention.
- Another thing that can hurt the child stronger than anything else is the divorce of the parents. This will definitely make the child be stressed and he or she will be deeply hurt. Children do not understand that there can be many things between the parents. So all they want to do is just to keep the family full and happy.
- Another thing that definitely will hurt the child is the severe punishment. If you beat the child, if you shout at the child, then he or she will definitely be strongly hurt, and will be under tension.
These were the core things that for sure will hurt your child and will make him or her extremely sad. So if you want to see your child happy, then avoiding doing the things listed above. Actually there are many different methods that will help you overcome those problems. You just have to treat the siblings equally, you have to love and care about them, not beat and shout at them. You should also never show that you are ashamed of them, and at the same time you have to praise them whenever they really worth it. Take care of your children, never let them down and never hurt.
